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Welcome to the Family and Friends section of the Stop it Now! Get Support website. This part of the site is for wives and partners, parents, all adult family members and friends of people who they suspect or know may be engaging in inappropriate sexual behaviours involving children.

There are several reasons why you might have come to the Stop it Now! Get Support website, for example:

  • Someone you are close to has told you they experience sexual thoughts about children
  • Someone you are close to they have committed a contact sexual offence against a child
  • You have concerns about the behaviour of someone you know towards children

This website offers free, anonymous self-help for those wishing to use the materials themselves or with the help of a family member or friend. It provides information about sexual offences against children and the law, and helps users to identify, explore, and manage their problematic sexual thoughts and/or sexual behaviour involving children.

The Family and Friends section may be read as an entire document if you wish. However, it may be that you are looking for information on a particular topic; for example, Who may experience sexual thoughts about children? or What are the consequences?, in which case you can go straight to that section.


Our aim is to provide the kind of information that family members need in order to begin to make sense of an extremely challenging situation. The discovery or suspicion that someone close to you is experiencing sexual thoughts about children, or engaging in inappropriate sexual behaviour, is usually very upsetting and people worry about the consequences not just for that person, but for themselves and their families.

You can of course talk to a trained operator via the Stop It Now! confidential Freephone Helpline, or contact us via our anonymous email system, but in addition this part of the website contains information that we hope you will find useful as you think about what to do next.


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